What is the Origin of the Precious Gemstone Sapphire?

Although no one knows for certain, scientifically or otherwise, how long-ago Sapphire gemstones formed, we do know that sapphires found today formed approximately 150 – 200 million years ago. Where sapphires are found today gives us clues and indications to where and how they formed as jewelry worn by people around the world.

Historical Facts About Sapphire

The word Sapphire derives from the Greek word “Sapphires”, meaning blue. Blue is the color of Sapphire gemstones most commonly found in jewelry. The colors range from pale ice blue to a deep vivid cobalt blue, but did you know that Sapphires also come in other colors?

Blue Sapphire is just the most desired variation of the mineral Corundum. Sapphire also comes in orange-pink, golden, white, and yes even black. Sapphire in its natural crystal form is known as a trigonal (3-sided prisms).

Take a look at this interesting Sapphire variation with Rutile (source form of titanium) intrusions within the crystal. This causes the light to refract or bounce off in what is called a six-point star. A stone like this is referred to as a Star Sapphire.

This Star effect is also known as Asterism and is considered a less desirable (impure) form of Sapphire.

All colors of the transparent variety of mineral Corundum are known as Sapphire. Large deposits of quality sapphires are only found in a few countries throughout the world. Mainly located in southern Asia and eastern Africa. The islands of Sri Lanka (also known as Ceylon) and Madagascar produce the majority of quality sapphires in the world.

How are Sapphire Gemstones Formed?

Where did Sapphire Gemstones come from? What happened inside the earth to create these beautiful gems and bring them closer to the surface? That answer varies from country to country, but the process is the same.

Sometime in ancient world millions of years ago source rocks deep within the earth were put under tremendous pressures, with intense high temperatures. This caused the atoms in the rock to break down and recombine into new metamorphic rocks (changed from its original form). The new metamorphic rock included gems such as Rubies and Sapphire (Corundum).

How do sapphires form in nature?

In each country, this process can vary slightly. Some Sapphires are formed inside high-grade metamorphic rocks and igneous rocks know as gneisses and granulites. Locations of these types of rocks are found in Australia, Sri-Lanka, India, Madagascar and Eastern Africa.

Most Sapphires formed between 6–18 miles down into the earth’s crust. The immense pressures from above, and high temperature above 800 degrees Fahrenheit changed sedimentary (“layered water deposited” rocks). Examples of these rocks are Siltstone and Shale.

Geological Formation Process

Sapphires are formed by the movement of our planet. Earthquakes, lava flows, mountains being formed, volcanic eruptions, you name it. All these cause shifts in the earth’s crust.

Sapphire Gemstones are formed by certain movements of heat and pressure and are found in both metamorphic and igneous rocks. Rocks that have Sapphires in them are granite, schist, gneiss, nepheline syenite to name a few.

They are also found in deposits of alluvium.

When Sapphire crystals form in nature they are Hexagonal in shape and are known (collectively) as Corundum.

The hardness of a Sapphire is second only to diamonds which makes them extremely prized.

Coloration

Corundum comes in every color of the rainbow; however, when it is not red it is called Sapphire. Red Corundum is called Ruby.

During the formation of Corundum mineral, what color minerals were present during the formation process determine what color the Sapphire will be.

Iron present during formation can create green or yellow Sapphires. Vanadium can cause purple Sapphires to form.

The most precious Sapphires are blue which is created when titanium is present during formation.

Lab Created Sapphire Gemstones

Since the advancement of science and technology, ways have been created to grow Sapphire crystals in a lab. The first process was created in 1902. It consisted of adding alumina powder to an oxyhydrogen flame which was pointed downward.

As this burned, alumina would slowly build up in what is known as a boule (teardrop shape). During this process certain chemicals can be added to create Sapphires of different colors and Ruby’s (red Sapphires).

Although there are many ways created since the early 1900’s to make lab-created gemstones. It was these man-made sapphire gemstones that allowed the use of this stone for technological advancements such as.

Appearance & Characteristics of Sapphires

Now that we know the history of Sapphire and how they are formed let’s learn about the stone itself. If you are just getting interest in sapphires or are planning to buy a Sapphire from Opals Down Under (we only stock Australian Sapphires). This section will teach you everything you need to know about these beautiful treasures.

What is a Sapphire Crystal?

Sapphire Crystal is scientifically known as Corundum. A sapphire is an Aluminum Oxide mineral composition (Al2O3).

Its crystal structure is Hexagonal.

All colors of Corundum are referred to by that color followed by the word Sapphire.

Blue Corundum= Blue Sapphire, Pink Corundum= Pink Sapphire

Tiny amounts of mineral within the crystal give it color (refer to each color Sapphire for more details).

Hardness Scale

Corundum is the second hardest mineral on earth. The only mineral that is harder than Corundum is diamonds.

Sapphires are a 9 on the Mohs hardness scale. The Mohs hardness scale was created in 1812 by Friedrich Mohs. It has been a great tool to help identify minerals.

Let’s look at the ten levels of hardness on the Mohs scale:

1.Talc (chalk)

2.Gypsum

3.Calcite

4.Fluorite

5.Apatite

6.Feldspar

7.Opal

8.Quartz (Amethyst, Citrine)

9.Topaz (Precious Topaz, Blue topaz)

10. Corundum (Sapphire)

The MOHS hardness scale does not go beyond the level 10 because diamond is the hardest mineral.

Keep in mind the Mohs scale is used as a relative scale. It is not used for fine testing. Since the scale doesn’t go past ten each mineral can use half numbers to determine between hardness.

For example: Sapphire is extremely hard and durable 9/10 on the Mohs scale.

Refractive Index

One way to identify what crystal you have is to use a Refractive index tester. What a refractive index does is measure how a crystal splits the spectrum of light.

Each crystal breaks light differently, and this helps determine what crystal it is.

When you use a refractive index tester on a pink Sapphire, yellow Sapphire or blue Sapphire you will get the same reading.

Color does not matter when using this test. It only measures what crystal it is. The human eye cannot determine what it sees by this reading.

The Refractive index of Corundum (Sapphire) is 1.75 – 1.76

Color

Sapphires come in every color from blue to black to colorless. There are no set rules to what color tone or how bright of a color a sapphire can be.

The way that sapphires come in so many colors are from trace minerals that are inside the crystal of Sapphire.

Inside the crystal there will reflect the color that the minerals show. If there is titanium inside the crystal it will reflect blue light making the gem appear blue.

If there are other minerals such as chromium the sapphire will appear pink.

You could even have a combination of elements that cause a lime green color or maybe even a purplish-blue color. If there were no trace minerals in a chemically pure sapphire it would be colorless.

Mother nature can put whatever she wants in a sapphire which is what makes each one unique. No two sapphires are the same piece of art. Uncommon and rare sapphires are priceless even if it is only 1 or 2 carats.

Size

Sapphires range in size from very tiny to extremely large. Sapphires can be found everyday under 1ct and can be found over 20+cts in quality.

Prices rise tremendously for large diameter stones but these are very rare. Gem quality stones that is. Specimen grade sapphire (aka jumbo coal sized rocks) can be found well over thousands of carats. But these sapphires have no value.

Treated vs. Untreated

This will be explained in very general terms. An untreated sapphire was mined from the ground it originated from and cut to a faceted gemstone.

Nothing was done to change the natural beauty that only nature provided. These stones are extremely rare compared to treated sapphires.

Natural untreated Sapphires are EXTRAORDINARILY rare. Again, no two stones are the same. Due to them being rare finding a unique one is priceless. Even if it is just a 1 or 2 karat stone.

Rarity

Rare means one thing. It can’t be replaced.

If something is rare and there is demand for that something then prices will rise. As more and more people become educated on treated vs natural the market price on untreated sapphires has skyrocketed.

Gem quality sapphires are rare. Take diamonds for example. You can find diamonds in almost every tv commercial by every jewelry store. They are on billboards everywhere and countless websites on the internet.

Production rates and use of diamonds worldwide prove to us that diamonds are far from rare. There is an oversupply of diamonds on the market.

Prices can stay high because of Highly inflated markup and release of diamonds from the suppliers (cartels).

Sapphires are mined yearly in gem bearing countries all around the world. They are mined by traditional hand mining and heavy machine mining.

Even with the heavy production of sapphires the return rate of quality sapphires vs other gems is much lower. For this reason, natural untreated sapphires are a great investment for keeping value or even gaining value.

Natural occurring untreated sapphires have room for growth.

Countries Sapphire’s Come From

Sapphires can be found all over the world. But once again only a few locations provide quality gemstone. After years of studying and traveling to these beautiful locations. We have come to conclusion that the most beautiful Sapphires come from the same countries they have for centuries.

With that being said only a couple new deposits have been found in the past 10 years.

Sri Lanka (Ceylon)

“Australia blows Sri Lanka out of the water” I hear you say. But I promise you Ceylon has only recently changed their name to “Sri Lanka” since they became free from the British.

The number of blue sapphires coming out of Sri Lanka is only matched by Madagascar.

Sapphires from Madagascar are often times lab tested and come back identical to Sri Lankan sapphires.

The tone of color and crystals inside Madagascar sapphires are near impossible to tell from Ceylon sapphires. Pricing for blue sapphires from these two countries are also comparable.

Burma

Burma is another country that has been producing some of the finest blue sapphires for centuries. The main description you will hear about Burmese sapphires are Royal Blue.

They are usually a darker tone of Royal Blue. Gemologists, Jewelers, Auction houses and stone dealers will tell you Burmese sapphires are the best quality sapphires you can buy.

Well, we aren’t taking that statement as fact. Every Sapphire should be graded by its own beauty when you look at it. Burma does produce some amazing stones but not all of them are winners.

They usually produce larger stones but in lower quantities. Larger Burmese sapphires will cost you 50% – 100% more than what you would pay for a Sri Lankan or Madagascar sapphire.

Kashmir Sapphires

The stones that are commonly known as “KASHMIR SAPPHIRES” are discussed in a mythical way. Three men found these sapphires in a very remote area high up in the Himalayan mountains of India late 1800’s.

The stones were of exceptional quality. The terms “Cornflower blue” came from these amazing stones. Cornflower blue is described as “velvety”, “sleepy”. Meaning when you look at the color it has a calming effect.

By the 1920’s the source was completely dried up and no new deposits have been found in the Kashmir area since.

This causes the prices of Kashmir stones to be worth 10 times more than what you would pay for a similar blue sapphire from another country.

Other locations where sapphires are found:

Although Thailand, Tanzania, Australia, Montana (U.S) and Cambodia do produce blue sapphires.

They mostly produce commercial quality stones only meant for jewelry makers. Commercial stones are still 100% real and can be rare and expensive.

Commercial grades from these locations normally have secondary colors and have to be treated (more on that later) to be sold.

Should I Get a Custom-Made Engagement Ring?

When shopping for an engagement ring, you want the ring you choose to symbolize your love story to be meaningful, high-quality, and unique to you. Because of this, it only makes sense to purchase a custom designed ring.

Today, we will cover why buying a custom engagement ring made by a trusted jeweler is best. No matter if you choose a natural diamond or lab-created diamond we will cover three reasons why getting your engagement ring custom made is the way to go. By the end of this article, you will understand why custom-made jewelry allows for so much beauty, quality, and customization versus ready-made jewelry.

Reason Number ONE: Quality & Diamond Shopping (Natural VS Lab Grown) or Other Quality Gemstones

The number one reason you should get a custom-made engagement ring is that you have more options and confidence when you shop for a diamond. With a custom ring, you have the opportunity to choose the type of diamond or high-quality gemstone you want and where you want it to come from. Let’s take a closer look at the two diamond options.

Natural VS Lab Grown Diamonds

Natural Diamonds are mined from the earth over billions of years. Lab Grown Diamonds on the other hand are grown in a laboratory setting. They both have the exact same chemical makeup and physical appearance.

Pluses of Natural Diamonds:

·         Tradition

·         Rare

·         Natural Symbolism

·         Pros to Lab Grown Diamonds:

·         Ethically sourced

·         Environmentally friendly

On average, these cost about 40% less than natural diamonds for the same quality.

Reason Number TWO: It’s All About YOU!

Have you ever purchased a ring that needed to be sized small or large after you bought it? When you purchase a ring that is not custom made for you, there is a large chance you will need to send it in to be resized. Resizing rings will eventually weaken the ring and lead to an insecure stone, weakened prongs, and metal fatigue.

Not only will your ring not be custom made for your finger, but it will not include any of your personal preferences. Jewelry designers that create custom rings take the time to measure your finger and understand your style.

Let’s take a closer look at how your custom ring will be made to fit you like no other.

Get to Know the Ring Design Process

Once you sit down with your designer to create your custom ring, they will take all of your finger measurements. This info allows the designer to create a ring that will not need any adjustments.

The process to create your custom engagement ring looks like this:

·         Sit Down Consultation for Your Ring Design

·         Your ring measurement will be taken to ensure great fit.

Your Custom Engagement Ring Design Process

Your ring is built from the ground up with YOUR information. There will be no need for resizing or modifications.

Picture Your Custom-Made Engagement Ring

Communicating your vision to the designer is key when making your ring. At Luna Felix, we allow you to see your ring design every step of the way. Typical visualizations include:

·         Hand Sketches

·         3D renderings (some custom jewelers offer this)

·         A 3d printed wax resin model of your ring. (If your jeweler manufactures its custom rings this way)

This allows you to see the exact ring you will be receiving before it’s built. Ensuring you are 100% happy with your ring’s appearance.

Reason NUMBER THREE: Expert Craftsmanship and Diamond Knowledge

When you work with an expert jeweler, you can rest easily knowing your ring is in good hands. Not only will you be working with someone that knows how to build a quality ring that will stand up to daily wear, but you also will have someone by your side that knows diamonds.

Benefits of Custom Design Professional Jewelers:

You know your ring will be of high quality. Jewelry built by expert craftsmen has a much lower risk of needing repairs or causing issues.

It’s built to last. Experts know how to build a ring that can handle life’s adventures.

Your ring is built with a artist’s touch. A professional jewelry designer can take your idea and make it a reality with their skills.

Knowing Diamonds

Just like with any product you buy, it’s always best to deal with someone who knows what they’re talking about. When it comes to diamonds, there are certain aspects that are looked at to determine how brilliant they are. When you work with a jeweler that knows diamonds, you can be sure you are getting the best bang for your buck.

The best jewelry makers have visited diamond cutting facilities, diamond mines, and certification labs around the world. They have acquired this knowledge and use it to educate clients on the differences in diamonds.

Why Custom Engagement Rings Are Worth It

Here’s a quick breakdown of why custom engagement rings are worth the investment:

·         They will save you money.

·         Since your ring won’t need to be resized or fixed, you save money in the long run.

·         The ring has meaning.

·         Every part of your ring is symbolic and tells a story about you as a couple.

·         You are 100% happy with your ring.

·         The ring you receive will be built to your specific preferences and you will love it for the rest of your life.

Misconceptions about Custom Rings

Misconception NUMBER ONE: They are too expensive

Truth: You can buy a custom ring at any price range. If you are looking to save money, consider lab grown diamonds or non-traditional metals.

Misconception NUMBER TWO: It’s a difficult process

Truth: Custom jewelers walk you through every step of the process. There is nothing to stress about, in fact it’s quite simple and fun.

Misconception NUMBER THREE: They take too long

Truth: With new technology, many custom jewelers can make your ring in a timely fashion.

Final Custom Engagement Ring Thoughts

Allow us to create the ring of your dreams. Luna Felix Goldsmith is one of the few custom jewelers in the country that makes rings using the gold granulation method. Our work is stunning and we are confident you will be happy with the result when you see what we will do for you.  At Luna Felix Goldsmith, we offer free ring consultations, educate our clients on diamonds, and provide you with years of maintenance for free. Contact us today to start the process of creating your perfect ring.

Design Your Dream Custom Engagement Ring

Let’s create your dream ring together. At Luna Felix Goldsmith in Santa Fe, NM we offer free consultations to discuss your design. We want you to be 100% confident in your ring selection and feel that by providing education on diamonds and jewelry, we can help you make the best decision when choosing your rings.

Contact us today at 505-989-7679 to learn more about our custom ring design services and visit our store to see wedding rings we have created in the past.

What’s the Right Amount to Spend on Groomsmen Gifts?

Welcome to everything you ever wanted to know about gift budgets for groomsmen. Asking someone to stand beside you during your wedding ceremony is a big honor—and you should be sure to get them a gift to show your appreciation. But what’s an appropriate amount to spend on a groomsmen’s gift?

Figuring out how much money to spend on groomsmen’s gifts can be tricky. There are several different things you’ll want to take into account when setting a budget, like how much your groomsmen are spending on your wedding and how much your spouse-to-be is spending on his or her gifts.

A typical groom will spend anywhere from $30 to $100 on each of his groomsmen’s gifts. However, of course, more can be (and is) spent. Remember, there is no set-in-stone budget. Feel free to spend less or more if your budget allows.

The main thing to remember is that you want to get your groomsmen a gift that they will appreciate. Whether you spend nothing because you made it yourself or $1000, your groomsmen will appreciate the gesture of you thanking them for standing beside you on your wedding day.

When you ask someone to be part of your wedding party, you ask them to do more than just stand beside you on your wedding day. You’re asking them to participate in the wedding process and help you prepare for your big day. Maybe they help you plan your bachelor party or are there to support you when you pick out the perfect suit.

When somebody does something like this for you, you want to show them how grateful you are. What better way to do that than with a groomsmen gift?

Wedding party gifts are a great way to show your gratitude to each one of your groomsmen for participating in your wedding. But how much should you spend on gifts? How much of your wedding budget should you allot to each of your groomsmen’s gifts?

Do You Have to Give Your Groomsmen Gifts?

First things first, no you don’t have to give your groomsmen gifts. However, it is a great way to show your appreciation. Becoming someone’s groomsman can come with responsibilities and costs. From attending a bachelor’s party to purchasing a new suit for the wedding, your groomsmen are spending money and time to be part of your big day.

So, while you don’t have to give your groomsmen a gift, it is certainly nice to do. If your budget is limited, that’s okay! Groomsmen’s gifts can range from $0 to thousands of dollars. What matters most is that you put thought into the gift you give.

What To Consider When Setting A Gift Budget

The amount that you spend on each of your groomsmen gifts will vary from couple to couple. When it comes to deciding how much you should spend on groomsmen’s gifts, keep these things in mind:

How much are your groomsmen spending on the wedding? If your groomsmen are spending hundreds of dollars on a new suit, your bachelor party, and traveling shenanigans, you should plan to reciprocate and spend money on their gift. If you’re asking your groomsmen to spend anywhere from $500-$1,000 on your wedding, you should spend about 10-15% of that on their gift. However, if your groomsmen are low-key and aren’t spending money on your wedding, you don’t need to stress about spending money on a gift.

How hands-on are you making your groomsmen with wedding planning? Some groomsmen are super involved with the entire wedding planning process. If your groomsmen is helping you pick out venues, plan the bachelor party, and decide on your wedding style, make sure his gift shows that he spent time and effort helping you.

What’s your partner spending on his/her wedding party? If you and your significant other are buying gifts for your respective wedding parties, you should discuss how much you’re planning to spend. Let’s say that your partner is spending $200 on his or her bridesmaids’ gifts. You may want to spend around $200 on your groomsmen’s gifts as well.

How many groomsmen do you have? If you only have one or two groomsmen, you may be willing to spend more on each gift than if you had to buy ten groomsmen gifts. Consider how many groomsmen you’re purchasing for when determining your budget.

How far did they travel? If your groomsman didn’t have to travel to your wedding, they would likely spend less money than if they traveled from across the world. If your groomsman traveled a long distance to be with you on your wedding day, you may want to spend a little extra on his gift.

How Much Should You Spend on Groomsmen Gifts?

Alright- now that we got all the complicated factors out of the way, how much should you spend on your groomsmen’s gifts? On average, most grooms spend between $30-$100 on each groomsman’s gift. So, if you have five groomsmen, you should spend somewhere between $150 and $500 on gifts. If they spent more, you should spend more on their Groomsmen gifts. Don’t be cheap and do the right thing. After all they are your buddies and you need to show them how much it means to you for them to be there for you.

Consider How Much Your Groomsmen Are Spending

When creating your wedding budget, go into more detail. Instead of knowing how much you want to spend overall, break it down into categories. How much are you willing to spend on the venue? How much will you spend on vendors? How much are you planning to spend on outfits? Include the groomsmen category as well. After spending money on a bachelor party and groomsmen gifts, you’ll want to know how much you’re planning to spend overall. Then, once you determine that, you can easily decide on a budget for groomsmen’s gifts by taking away a percentage of what your groomsmen spent.

Factor In Your Overall Wedding Budget

This tip can be used for any wedding related questions. Before you blow all your money on something, consider your overall budget. It can be easy to get caught up in the moment and buy things you don’t need. If your groomsmen are throwing you an Instagram festive selfie-inspired bachelor party and registering for expensive gifts, don’t feel the need to spend your life savings on a gift. Pay attention to how much you want to spend on groomsmen’s gifts and adhere to your budget.

Final Budgeting Tips for Groomsmen Gifts

Just remember, there is no right or wrong answer when it comes to spending money on groomsmen’s gifts. Every couple and groomsmen are different. Some guys may have spent thousands of dollars participating in your wedding and others are low-key. Also, consider your budget and how much you’re able to spend.

Ultimately, your groomsmen will not care about the price of the gift. They’ll care that you put time and thought into getting them a gift that they will use and enjoy. So, spend whatever amount you’re comfortable with and pick your groomsmen a gift that they will love.

And that’s how much you should spend on groomsmen’s gifts!

How to Pick a Jeweler for Your Custom Engagement Ring

Engagement rings are serious business. For many shoppers they represent the largest and most meaningful purchase of their life. Once you’ve decided you want a custom ring (rather than picking something off the display), the next step can seem daunting: finding that perfect jeweler.

The truth is that going with a custom engagement ring doesn’t have to be complicated, intimidating, or require you to spend every penny you own. A good jeweler will walk you through the process step-by-step, help you turn your ideas into something wearable (and durable! ), and ensure you make informed decisions at every stage. Here’s how to find that jeweler, what to look for, and what to expect when you take the plunge into custom design.

Decoding “Custom” Ring Jewelry

A custom engagement ring is made specifically for you and will typically start with a consultation with a jewelry designer. From choosing finger size and your center stone to metal type and setting style to tiny design details you’ll love, you have control of every element of your ring with input from a professional jeweler.

Contrary to what some may think, custom doesn’t mean expensive or over the top. In fact, many custom rings are quite simple; the difference is that you intend every piece and aren’t paying for someone else’s idea of what will sell to the masses. You’re investing in a ring that’s tailored to your personal style.

Exactly how much you invest in your custom ring can vary significantly based on your choices throughout the design process. It can be as affordable or as expensive as you make it.

Independent Research is Key

There are many ways to find a custom jeweler, but some stand out more than others. It always helps to start with your own independent research. Look online for customer reviews, browse their Facebook page, Instagram feed, and see if they showcase custom designs in their online galleries. Jewelers who pride themselves on custom work will usually highlight it online.

Take note of how well they explain their custom process. If a jeweler makes custom engagement rings regularly, they should have no problem discussing the different stages of design, expected timeframes, and materials used.

Online reviews, such as the one’s you find on Google and Yelp, can be helpful here as well, particularly those that mention custom work. Look for reviewers who mention the jeweler’s communication, if the ring turned out as designed, and how the ring has held up over time.

Local Jewelers vs. Chain Stores

Independent jewelers are usually the go-to for custom engagement rings. Most have in-house designers as well as bench jewelers, allowing for flexibility and open communication.

Chain stores may provide limited customization but generally have systems built around manufacturing sets rings rather than designing one from scratch. If you’re looking for something personalized to your style and taste, you’ll likely have more luck at a local independent jewelry store.

That being said, local doesn’t always mean down the street. With technology today, many incredible custom jewelers work with clients remotely and send sketches, CAD renderings, notifications, and updates via text or email. Location is less important than availability and a well-defined custom process. Several custom jewelers design and manufacture custom engagement rings for people all over the world. It’s completely normal these days with Google Meet and Zoom meetings to discuss a custom engagement ring directly with the custom jeweler in an online meeting.

Consider their Experience Designing Custom Jewelry

Many wonderful jewelers focus exclusively on repair, restructuring, or selling vintage jewelry. But that doesn’t mean they have experience with — or a process for — creating custom engagement rings.

Ideally, you want to work with a jeweler who specializes at least some of the time in custom design. They should be able to explain how your ideas are transformed into sketches and finished products, how to modify designs, and how they set stones to ensure they’re secure.

You also want to make sure their style matches your vision. You won’t likely love every ring they’ve made, but when looking through portfolios make sure you see some styles that catch your eye.

As you interview different jewelers, pay attention to how they handle questions about what works and what doesn’t. A good jeweler will be honest about your design choices and may even recommend you work with someone else if they don’t think you’ll get the ring you envision working with them. Part of their job is balancing aesthetics with security, comfort, and longevity.

Find a Jeweler Who Values Communication

Above all else, your custom ring should be a collaboration between you and your jeweler. Because of this, communication is key. During your initial consultation you should feel comfortable asking questions and giving your opinion. Your jeweler should listen to what you have to say and explain things to you without making you feel ignorant or pressured.

You should feel like you are being educated about the design process, not pushed into buying or designing something that’s outside of your budget or taste. A good jeweler will take your ideas and run with them, making suggestions when you request input but never overtaking the design.

Communicating also extends to things like timeframes and pricing. Custom rings don’t happen overnight, and there will be delays sometimes due to machinery, backup on the bench, or life getting in the way. But you should always know where your ring is in the production process and what will happen next.

Discussing your Custom Engagement Ring Budget

Discussing money is never fun, but it’s part of the custom process. A good jeweler will ask about your budget up front so they know what you’re working with and can design accordingly.

Just because you’re going custom doesn’t mean you have to spend a fortune. In many cases, buying direct from a jeweler will allow you to spend your money more wisely. Instead of overpaying for brand names and diamonds you don’t really care about, you can focus your budget on what matters most to you.

Just as they explain the design process, your jeweler should clearly explain their pricing structure, how making changes affects the final cost, and when you’ll need to make payments. No one likes hidden fees and surprises.

Timeline for your Custom Ring

This brings us to timelines. Custom rings take time, from the consultation to final jewelry cleaning before delivery. The entire process can range from a few weeks to several months depending on the ring you design.

If you have a date in mind for the proposal, be sure to mention that from the start. A reputable jeweler will give you an estimated timeline and stick to it (or explain why it needs to be pushed back). Don’t rush custom work if you can help it. The more time your jeweler has to craft your ring, the less likely mistakes will happen.

Planning ahead will also allow you time to make changes to your design. Most customers opt to change something about the design at least once. This is normal and allows you to really tweak your ring to your exact specifications.

One Last Thing About Choosing a Jeweler for Your Custom Engagement Ring

Finding the right jeweler for your custom engagement ring isn’t about who has the flashiest window. Look past their marketing material and focus on who you’d enjoy working with long-term. The right jeweler will have the skills you need coupled with clear communication, honest advice, and a vested interest in helping you bring your vision to life.

Research jewelers online, take the time to look through everything they’ve posted online, ask lots of questions when you interview them, and don’t be afraid to talk about budget and timelines. You’ll find your custom ring process becomes far less stressful and far more enjoyable.

Remember your ring is meant to be symbolic of your relationship. Not only should it be unique, but it should be meaningful, well crafted, and designed to be worn daily for years to come. Work with a jeweler who makes you feel like part of the process every step of the way, and you’ll end up with a ring you’re proud to wear every single day.

How is Gold Granulation Jewelry Made?

What Facts Are Critical to Be Aware of Regarding Purchasing Natural, Lab or Synthetic Diamonds?

Shopping for diamonds can be a difficult task. With synthetic diamonds, lab diamonds and natural diamonds are all available to buy. Finding exactly what you’re looking for might take some time and research. Here’s what you need to know when it comes to natural diamonds vs lab diamonds vs synthetic diamonds.

Synthetic diamonds have many names. Synthetic diamonds can also be referred to as lab made diamonds. According to the Gemological Institute of America or GIA, lab made diamonds are also sometimes referred to as “man-made or synthetic diamonds.”

Whereas simulated diamonds are stones that only look like diamonds. Some examples would be cubic zirconia, white sapphire, moissanite, zircon, rutile, spinel and synthetic garnet.

Is a Lab Diamonds the same as Synthetic Diamond?

No. Lab diamonds are not synthetic diamonds. Lab grown diamonds look identical to a natural diamond. They have the same properties as natural diamonds. The only difference is where they come from. Lab diamonds are grown in a lab. Synthetic diamonds are not the same as natural or lab grown diamonds. Common simulated diamonds can include spinel, and cubic zirconia.

What is a natural diamond?

Natural diamonds are made from carbon. They are the hardest natural substance on earth. Natural diamonds take one to three BILLION years to be created at least 85 miles below the earth’s mantle. The process requires natural conditions of very high pressure and high temperature. Once created, they travel via molten rock to the surface. Natural diamonds are then mined and sold to be cut into beautiful jewelry or can be used for industrial purposes. Learn more about how diamonds are formed

What is a lab diamond?

Lab diamonds, also known as man-made diamonds, go through the same process as natural diamonds. Except instead of taking billions of years, it only takes weeks. And instead of happening naturally, it happens in a lab.

A diamond seed is selected and put through extreme high pressure and high temperature processes. After a few weeks, the diamond seed would become a full rough diamond. Once grown, the diamond is cut and polished into perfection.

Lab versus Simulated Diamonds

Simulated diamonds do NOT have the same properties as natural diamonds. Either they have been manufactured or chemically changed to look like diamonds.

Whereas lab grown diamonds are actual diamonds that have the same physical and chemical properties as a natural diamond would. The only difference is they are grown by man.

Both simulated diamonds and lab diamonds have some properties similar to a diamond. For example, they both sparkle and are beautiful alternatives to natural diamonds.

Benefits of Buying Natural and Lab Diamonds

Benefits of Natural Diamonds

Natural diamonds are far superior to any other diamond you can buy. There are many benefits to buying a natural diamond. Here are a few:

Natural diamonds will appreciate in value because of inflation. The rarer a diamond is, the more expensive it is. The larger a diamond is, the rarer it is.

Natural diamonds have been around for centuries. Meaning the prices will not skyrocket because it’s been established what they should cost.

Natural diamonds that are known to appreciate in value quicker are fancy colors. Fancy color diamonds such as canary yellow diamonds are known to be investment grade. If you are looking to invest in a diamond that can offer great returns. The rarest diamonds in the natural world are red diamonds. Pink and blue diamonds are also high value when it comes to natural diamonds.

Benefits of Lab Diamonds

Lab or man-made diamonds are made in lab settings. The process uses high-tech innovations to form diamonds in a controlled environment.

Lab diamonds have the same benefits as natural diamonds because they share the exact properties.

Diamonds take millions of years to form naturally, inside the earth. Where as lab diamonds take weeks. Conditions for a lab diamond to form are closely monitored.

Because there is a new alternative to diamonds, there is a shorter supply for these diamonds to travel before they reach the consumer.

Just like lab diamonds take weeks to form, it shortens the time for a diamond to be supplied to many businesses before it reaches you.

Helping to limit supply from our Earth also limits the effect on our environment. The less hands a diamond passes through, you may be allowed more transparency when it comes to how your diamond was formed.

Durability & Certification

Natural diamonds are far more durable than any other stone you can purchase. Diamonds rate a 10 on the Mohs Scale of Hardness. Since they are the highest grade, they are ideal for everyday wear. Since you wear an engagement ring every day, you will want to purchase a natural diamond for your ring.

Lab diamonds rate a 9.25 on the Mohs scale of hardness. Though they aren’t as hard as natural diamonds. They are still extremely durable.

GIA Certification

GIA diamonds are certified by the Gemological Institute of America. This institution has been around since 1931. This non-profit reports that every diamond goes through testing to disclose where the diamond originated from (natural or lab). If any treatments were done to the diamond. They also grade the diamond by the 4 Cs.

While there are many other institutions that offer grading and certification for diamonds. GIA is one of the leading sources for diamond origin.

Having a diamond certified by GIA can be difficult when you’re buying diamonds less than .20 karat. However, if you find a natural diamond that is GIA certified, you will know for sure what you are getting.

IGI Certification

Founded in 1975, the International Gemological Institute or IGI has spread to different locations all over the world. They are an independent laboratory that studies jewelry, colored stones and lab diamonds.

Just like when you are shopping for a diamond. They only see what looks good to the naked eye versus diamonds that don’t.

These professionals use a grading system called the IGI certification. This grades diamonds to accurately represent the best diamonds for the market.

Which is better: GIA or IGI Diamond Certification?

They both hold the same value as they are both backed by leading laboratories. GIA certified diamonds are used more commonly in the natural diamond market.

Since many jewelers tend to use GIA as their certified grading process. They both grade diamonds by the same basic standards.

Identifying Natural and Lab Diamonds

With lab diamonds there are some “tells” when it comes to identifying if they are real or not.

The first test is thermal conductivity. Diamonds can conduct and react to heat. Some lab made diamonds cannot do this.

Since they are created in a lab. The process allows them to create diamonds with no clarity whatsoever.

Diamonds are made to be very colorless. This helps the diamond look very white, giving it more ability to reflect light and sparkle.

Prices are always a tell. If the diamond is too perfect of a price. (Up to 75% less than what a natural diamond should cost). You may want to rethink your selection.

How Do Jewelers Create Gold Granulation Jewelry Using Tiny Gold Beads?

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Gold Granulation jewelry work is absolutely beautiful. The thousands of tiny gold balls fused onto gold sheets create mesmerizing works of art. Archaeologists have discovered granulation jewelry on ancient Sumerian pieces dating back to 2800 BC!

But HOW exactly do jewelers create these pieces of artwork? I don’t know about you…but it looks hard (and time-consuming!) to attach hundreds of teeny-tiny beads to gold per square inch!

Wait…didn’t we JUST discuss how soft gold and electrum are?

Well, if gold and electrum (that fancy gold + silver mix we discussed above) are considered soft metals, how did the ancients manage to get those little gold nuggets to not only attach TO the base firmly, but also stay perfectly in place?? Easy! Heat and a little chemistry magic.

Simply put, jewelers cut sheet gold into uniform granules with specialized small-tipped tools. Real magic happens when heat is applied to create powerful bonds between the granules and the jewelry base.

Elbow Grease: Hard Soldering by Hand

Before we talk about the Etruscan methods they used, let’s discuss the most tedious way to attach granules. Brace yourself. It’s called hard soldering.

Essentially the jeweler will use tweezers or a fine paintbrush to pick up and place each granule where they want it to permanently rest. Once in place, the teensy bead is gently pushed into the surface below with slight pressure. This ensures that it won’t budge when dipped in heat.

Next, they take a soldering tip and touch it to where the bead meets the base. The granule and base melt together! Imagine this process for hundreds…maybe even thousands of granules. Oy vey!

No wonder most artisans avoid doing granulation this way.

Yuck: Puddling

Taking it up a notch, granules can be attached using a paste flux mixture. The jewelry artisan coats the base metal with flux and sprinkles granules on top like sprinkles on a cupcake. Then they heat the piece, causing solder in the paste to melt, connecting the granules.

Sounds great…but now you’re left with gross, goopy solder drips all around your beads. That means more work for the jewelry artisan to file and polish the granules free of solder globs. Yuck.

Now this is why the Etruscans were brilliant.

Snuggles: Fusion Bonding Method

Some believe that the talented Etruscans developed a method known as fusion bonding. The key difference between this technique and soldering is that both the base metal and the granules are made from the same alloy of gold.

Jewelry artists brush just enough flux on the base to help the granules stay put after they apply them to the surface. Then the entire piece gets tucked inside a furnace devoid of oxygen. As it reaches the melting point of the gold alloy, the bead magically fuses with the base, right where they make contact.

Since there is no oxygen in the furnace, flux burns away cleanly. You’re left with a perfect bond with no messy solder lines or goopy melted droplets.

Murphy: Colloidal Soldering Technique

Another theory is that the Etruscans were using a technique called colloidal soldering. This technique requires painting on a concoction of gum from plants and copper salts as if it were glue. The gum allows the granules to adhere to the base.

Once in the furnace, the organic material burns away like the flux in the method above. In addition, it leaves behind copper in the areas where granules connect to the base. When the temperature reaches 890°C, copper allows microscopic but mighty strong bonds to form.

This technique works well because it doesn’t take as much heat to granulate, meaning the beads are less likely to melt away before everything solidifies. No matter which technique the Etruscans used, their jewelry skills were next-level awesome.

How To Clean Gold Jewelry: Maintenance & Care Tips

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Gold jewelry can last a lifetime with proper care. There are many ways you can ensure your gold jewelry is well taken care of and shines for years to come!

Here at Luna Felix Goldsmith, we have put together a simple care guide that has awesome gold jewelry care tips you can use to take good care of your gold jewelry collection. Not only will this article show you how to care for gold, but it will also teach you how to care for all your gold. We’ll show you how to take care of your gold rings, how to clean gold bracelets, and how to clean a gold chain.

Gold Care 101: Learn About the Different Types of Gold

Before learning how to clean gold jewelry, you should know that even though there are several types of gold, they should all be cared for in the same manner.

·         Yellow Gold – When people think of gold jewelry, most think of yellow gold. Yellow gold is pure gold mixed with silver, copper, and zinc. Yellow gold requires the minimum amount of maintenance.

·         White Gold – White gold is mixed with nickel or palladium. Along with zinc and copper, white gold is more durable than yellow gold and more scratch resistant.

·         Rose Gold – When gold is alloyed with copper, you get rose gold. Not only is this gold beautiful, but it is more durable than both white and yellow gold.

At Luna Felix Goldsmith, you can find all types of gold jewelry! Browse our gold rings and gold bracelets for gorgeous styles. Check out our gold necklaces and gold earrings as well.

6 Ways to Ensure you’ll Enjoy the Lifetime of Your Gold Jewelry

Taking care of your gold jewelry can be accomplished by following a few simple jewelry care tips. Whether you are looking for care instructions for gold filled jewelry or how to remove tarnish from gold, follow the steps below to keep your jewelry looking beautiful.

Don’t Wear Jewelry in the Pool

Can you wear gold jewelry in the pool? No. You should take your jewelry off before jumping into the pool. Chlorine and other chemicals that are present in pools can stain your jewelry.

Remove Gold Jewelry When Showering or Bathing

Can you wear gold jewelry in the shower? You should. Water will not harm your gold jewelry, but it can make it lose its shine. If you want your jewelry to stay shiny, we recommend taking your gold jewelry off whenever you shower or take a bath.

Putting on Your Jewelry Last

Always put your jewelry on last when you are getting dressed. You don’t want any deposits of perfume or makeup on your jewelry. Makeup and perfume can harm your gold jewelry or make it dull.

Polish and Buff Jewelry Occasionally

Polishing your gold jewelry is important to reduce the number of scratches it can acquire. How often should you clean your gold jewelry? Make sure to polish all of your gold jewelry every couple of months.

Store Your Gold Jewelry Correctly

How you store your jewelry is just as important as keeping your jewelry clean. Learning how to store gold jewelry properly is one of the most important gold jewelry care tips. However, it is often forgotten. Check out how to properly store your jewelry:

Purchase a jewelry box that has fabric lining and multiple compartments.

Wrap your gold jewelry in soft paper, put it in an individual bag, or store it in a cloth pouch.

You may also want to store your jewelry in close with silica gel packets. These packets help soak up the moisture in the air.

Regular Gold Jewelry Cleanings

One of the best tips for how to clean gold jewelry is to perform regular cleanings. Just like how oils, dust, and makeup can dull your jewelry’s shine, it can build up over time. Clean your gold jewelry often by following these simple steps.

·         Prepare warm water and dish soap. Not only will this clean your jewelry, but dish soap is not abrasive and will not damage your gold.

·         Let it soak. Let your jewelry soak for about 3 hours. Dish soap is a gentle cleaner, so letting your jewelry soak will not hurt it.

·         Brush it off gently. Learn how to polish gold jewelry by using a very soft-bristled brush. You can use a soft toothbrush, a clean nail brush, or even a cotton swab.

·         Wipe jewelry. Use a jewelry polishing cloth to wipe down your jewelry. Paper towels and facial tissues are too rough and can scratch your jewelry.

·         Avoid using harsh chemicals. Harsh chemicals can scratch your jewelry and can cause permanent discoloration.

·         Do not use toothpaste. Along with bleach and baking soda, you should never use toothpaste to clean your gold jewelry.

Shop Luna Felix Goldsmith for Jewelry

If you are looking for gold jewelry, look no further than Luna Felix Goldsmith. We offer gold necklaces, gold bracelets, gold rings, and gold earrings. No matter what your style is or what type of gold you’re looking for, you can find it at Luna Felix Goldsmith.

FAQs

How long does gold jewelry last?

Properly cared for gold plated jewelry should last you a couple years. 14 karat gold can last you a lifetime when properly cared for. 18 and 24 karat gold are pure gold and can also last a lifetime when taken care of.

Can I wear my gold jewelry in the ocean?

We do not recommend swimming in the ocean with your gold jewelry. Salt can cause gold to degrade. As with pools, we recommend taking your jewelry off before getting in the ocean.

Will sweat damage gold?

The metals that are added to gold to make it stronger can be damaged by sweat over time. Pure gold will not be damaged.

What gold doesn’t tarnish?

24 karat gold won’t tarnish because it’s pure gold.

Epilogue

When you’re thinking about purchasing exquisite gold jewelry for a gift, anniversary, Valentine’s Day or Christmas, the place to shop is Luna Felix Goldsmith. We are in Santa Fe, New Mexico, and we sell the finest gold granulation jewelry in the world. It is all custom handmade jewelry, and it is so beautiful it can be cherished for a lifetime.

Which is the Better Way to Go, Custom-Made Jewelry or Machine-Made Jewelry?

Shopping for jewelry really can be an emotional experience. Whether you’re buying something to celebrate an important milestone in someone’s life that you love or you are simply treating yourself to something gorgeous, jewelry often evokes emotions and means much more than what it looks like on the outside. But before you go shopping for that next big piece of jewelry, there are a few things you might want to consider. Something you may not have already thought about is how the jewelry was made. When you’re talking about fine jewelry, there are typically only two options: handmade or machine-made.

Both handmade jewelry and machine-made jewelry can be stunning, but they are very different and give shoppers different levels of involvement in the process. Handmade jewelry is often what people try to seek out because of the charm and story behind how it was created. Machine-made jewelry is often desired because every single piece that comes off the production line is exactly the same as the last.

If you haven’t taken the time to think about this before, don’t worry. Most people haven’t! But if you’re looking to become a wise jewelry shopper, it’s time to learn the differences between handmade vs machine-made jewelry.

Once you know what makes the two different from each other and what that means for the quality and price–you’ll be able to ask your jeweler the right questions. That way, whether you fall in love with something handmade or machine-made, you can be sure you know what you’re getting!

What is Handmade Jewelry?

Handmade jewelry is made entirely by hand using classic goldsmithing tools. When jewelers create handmade jewelry, they do just as the name implies…by hand. Now don’t get us wrong, they will use machines to help them with certain aspects of the process. There are many steps in the casting process that can only be done by machine. Jewelry makers also use machines to help them set the stones. When you think of this jewelry maker using tools like torches, drills, polishing wheels, etc….you are definitely thinking of handmade jewelry.

The key to remember is that none of these machines are automated! They use machinery as tools that their hands guide to create the shapes in the metal, set the stones, and polish your jewelry. Handmade jewelry is one-of-a-kind, there is no exact duplicate of another piece possible because of tiny imperfections and variations that happen when a person makes it. This allows jewelry to have character, and that is something many people seek when they want handmade jewelry.

What is Machine-Made Jewelry?

Machine made jewelry isn’t created with jewelers using their hands to shape the piece as it’s being made. Machines made jewelry is typically made to be mass-produced. Machines are consistent and perfect so they create exactly the same piece every time. Since machines can create jewelry very quickly and detail oriented programs are controlling the machines, manufacturers can create beautiful jewelry at a much lower cost than its handmade counterpart.

Quality Differences

Handmade Jewelry – When jewelry is made by hand, your jeweler will typically be looking through a microscope while they work. Because of this, they are able to take their time on each step and pay attention to the small details. A handmade artisan will cut each stone prong individually and set them with care. While making your jewelry, they will pay close attention to detail and double-check their work because they know you will too. Handmade jewelry is quality jewelry that will last you a lifetime.

Machine Made Jewelry – Now we want to preface this by saying that machine-made jewelry is not always low-quality jewelry. If the manufacturer has high-quality machines that are properly calibrated and the materials they are starting with are high-quality as well, then there’s no reason the end product shouldn’t be too! It will just lack that personable touch and some of the little details that a human eye simply can’t catch. Things like sharp prongs holding your diamond in place or edges that may not have been polished all the way.

Design Flexibility

Handmade Jewelry – With handmade jewelry you have an unlimited amount of flexibility when it comes to the uniqueness of your piece. You can sit down with your jeweler and customize something that already exists or create something from scratch!

Machine Made Jewelry – Majority of machine-made jewelry is mass-produced. This means that you will typically not be able to make changes to a design. Most machine jewelry is designed using CAD programs. Once a design is done, there isn’t typically an option to change it just for the one piece on the production line.

Price Differences

Handmade Jewelry– Handmade jewelry will cost you more because you are paying for the materials as well as the jeweler’s time. If your jeweler has been making beautiful jewelry for 25 years, their labor is probably going to cost you. However, that also means they know what they’re doing and will create a beautiful piece. Decide what’s more important to you when it comes to price.

Machine Made Jewelry –Machine jewelry is less expensive because the bulk of it is made by machines. Machines do not require breaks, time off, or vacations so production can stay consistent. Because they can make large amounts of jewelry in a short period of time and purchase materials in bulk, they can sell it to you for less money.

Time & Turnaround

Handmade Jewelry– Like previously mentioned, handmade jewelry takes a long time. If you are short on time, you might want to consider skipping the handmade route. Putting time restraint on handmade jewelry can be frustrating for you and the jewelry maker. You may find yourself making rushed decisions that you’ll regret in the long run. Creating handmade jewelry requires a lot of communication, a clear vision, and patience. You will probably have to meet with your jewelry maker several times in person to finalize details and even help them source out materials. Once the design is finalized it can take over a month to get your piece finished. Some people hate waiting though the entire process and some love being part of the creation of something unique.

Machine Made Jewelry – If you need a piece of jewelry ASAP, go with machine-made jewelry. Many jewelry stores keep machine-made jewelry in stock so you can literally walk out with your jewelry that same day!

Emotional Value

Handmade Jewelry- Let’s face it. If you are involved in almost every step of the process of making your jewelry, you will automatically be emotionally invested and want to cherish the piece forever. Whether you helped your jewelry maker sketch the design, pick the perfect center stone, or you watched them turn the sketch into a wax model and then into your finished jewelry. You have a story behind your handmade piece that you will get to share every time you wear it. Not to mention, you can pass that story down to anyone who is lucky enough to wear it next!

Machine Made Jewelry- Just because your jewelry wasn’t handmade doesn’t mean it can’t have emotional value and an amazing story behind it. Looking for the perfect piece of jewelry doesn’t always have to mean custom shopping. If you find the perfect necklace or ring and it’s for your anniversary or to celebrate your sweetheart, then it will always have sentimental value.

Final Thoughts

Still not sure which route you’re going to choose? That’s okay! If you value uniqueness and detail and have the time and budget, handmade jewelry is the way to go. Not only can you create something beautiful and completely unique to you and your significant other but handmade jewelry makes for amazing gifts and heirloom pieces you can pass down for generations.

If you’re short on time or don’t have a large budget to spend on jewelry, machine-made jewelry might be best for you. Machine jewelry is also great if you like things to be perfectly symmetrical and don’t like little imperfections like some handmade jewelry might have.

So which type of jewelry is better? There is no right or wrong answer here, only what better suits your needs and wants!

When Should You Have an Engagement Party After Getting Engaged?

When you get engaged, everyone wants to celebrate with you! From fun bridal shower games to cookies for your wedding party, you’ve got lots to look forward to. Of course, one of the first questions your loved ones will ask is when you’ll be having an engagement party.

Whether you’re getting engaged soon or just curious, read on to learn everything you need to know about engagement party etiquette!

Do You Need to Throw an Engagement Party?

Hosting an engagement party isn’t mandatory, but it is a great opportunity to share the news of your engagement with your friends and family all at once.

Once your loved ones find out about your engagement, they’ll want nothing more than to congratulate you two in person. Why not let them by hosting an engagement party?

You’ll also find that having an engagement party is a great way to introduce your family or friends to each other. You never know who your guests will bond with! Mixing both sides is also a great way to help determine who will be in your wedding party.

When Should you Host your Engagement Party?

The best time to host an engagement party is sometime between 2-4 months after you get engaged. This allows you time to enjoy your newly engaged stage before having to jump straight into wedding planning.

Keep in mind that your wedding timeline can affect your engagement party as well! If you’re planning a short engagement, you’ll probably want to hold your engagement party within the first couple of months.

You don’t want to be planning your engagement party and wedding at the same time.

Who Should Host an Engagement Party?

Wedding traditions say that the bride’s parents host the engagement party. However, times are changing and you can host or someone close to the couple can host instead.

If your parents are offering to host your engagement party, accept their generous offer. But if you’d prefer to host it yourself, go right ahead!

You can also host your engagement party together as a couple. Times are different now and there’s no strict rule on who should host.

Can You Have More Than One Engagement Party?

Yes, you can have more than one engagement party if you’d like. It’s not uncommon for couples with families in different cities to host smaller engagement celebrations rather than one big one.

Who Pays for an Engagement Party?

Typically, the person who is hosting the party will take care of expenses. If your parents are paying for your wedding, you may not want them to pay for your engagement party too.

Talk to your partner and decide what you’re both comfortable with. If you’re hosting the party yourself, you’ll be the ones paying.

Remember that regardless of who’s hosting, you should never make your guests pay for themselves. Keep this in mind if you plan on hosting your engagement party at a venue or restaurant.

Engagement parties don’t have to be expensive or extravagant. Don’t worry about stressing for something you can’t afford. A simple barbecue in your backyard will be special just by having your loved ones around.

Who Should Be Invited to Your Engagement Party?

Rule Number 1 of engagement party etiquette – anyone who you invite to your engagement party should be invited to your wedding.

Invite guests to your engagement party that you would also want to invite to your wedding. You don’t want to invite someone just to hear about your engagement if they won’t make the cut for your wedding.

Can I Have an Engagement Party If I’m Planning to Elope?

If you’re positive that you want to elope, then by all means, throw an engagement party!

Keep in mind that your guests will likely be upset that they aren’t able to attend your wedding. Be sure to mention your elopement plans on your engagement party invitations!

Want a fun alternative? Skip the engagement party and host a “We’re Married!” party once you return from your elopement.

What Should Happen at An Engagement Party?

You can make your engagement party whatever you want it to be. Typically, engagement parties are more casual than your actual wedding celebration.

If you’re keeping it small and inviting close family, consider hosting a lunch, afternoon tea or dinner. A cocktail-style party is better if you’re inviting a lot of guests and want everyone to mingle.

There’s no real structure for an engagement party besides spending time with the people you love! Meet your spouse’s family and friends, make introductions and relax.

Don’t forget about food and drinks. And maybe even a couple of speeches to thank everyone for attending.

Who Should Give a Speech at an Engagement Party?

Speeches at engagement parties are less formal than wedding speeches. Typically, the father of the bride gives a short toast to the couple.

Nowadays, anyone can give a speech at your engagement party. Ask family members or friends close to the couple to give a quick speech.

You can thank your guests for coming together to celebrate your engagement and share your proposal story. Keep the speeches short and save the good stuff for your wedding day!

Do you Need to Send Formal Invitations for an Engagement Party?

You can absolutely send informal invitations for your engagement party. An engagement party invitation will set the tone for your event.

Sending invitations through a Facebook group or group text is perfect for an intimate engagement party with family only. If you’re hosting your party at a venue, opt for digital invitations.

On the other hand, printable invitations are great if you’re going for a formal or upscale engagement party.

Regardless of how you send your invitations, make sure they include:

·         Names

·         Host

·         Date, time, and location

·         Dress code

·         RSVP info

Send your engagement invitations at least one month out. If you have guests that need to travel, make sure to send their invites even earlier.

The short answer? No, guests aren’t required to bring you gifts to your engagement party.

It’s considered rude to ask for gifts or register for an engagement party. We suggest letting your guests know not to bring gifts by writing “no gifts” or “your presence is our present” on your invitation.

Keep in mind that some guests will still bring gifts. Set up a small table for people to place gifts and greeting cards when they arrive.

If you’re not hosting the party yourself, it’s considerate to bring a host gift to say thank you for your hospitality.

Can You Wear a White Dress to Your Engagement Party?

YES! Wear whichever color you want to your engagement party. If you’d like to wear white, go ahead!

Just keep in mind that your wedding day is typically where you’ll wear the white gown of your dreams. Keep your engagement dress cute and casual, you’ll have lots of time to dress up later.

What Happens After Your Engagement Party?

Once your engagement party is over and done with, you can jump into wedding planning!

We know wedding planning can be a lot. Try making a list of things you need to do first and take care of the essentials. Things like your wedding budget, guest list, and wedding date should be determined early on.

What Are the Next Steps to Take After Your Engagement?

Cheers, it happened, you’re engaged. Holy cow, right! Okay, okay, we know you have a million questions. Who do you tell first? Should you throw an engagement party? When do you go wedding venue shopping? When can you get cake tastings? After becoming recently engaged, you may be wondering, what the heck do I do now? Do not panic. Before you go into shock (or have a wedding planning panic attack), take a deep breath and calm down. You’ve got this! And we’re here to walk you through the next steps to take after your engagement.

You may have immediately thought to yourself, “Okay, I just got engaged. Now what?!” Well, fret not, lovebirds. There’s no need to panic. While planning a wedding is a process, it doesn’t have to begin the second your fiancé(y) pops the question. Everyone’s timeline is different and there is no designated timeline when it comes to planning your wedding.

1. Relax and Enjoy Your Engagement

Before you go Buy-The-Office for binders and start researching vendors, take a moment to celebrate this incredible milestone you’ve just reached. “Take the first few days of your engagement to spend alone with your partner. While you probably can’t wait to tell everyone you know, you deserve at least a few days to celebrate this new phase of your relationship privately,” explains McKenzi Taylor, owner and wedding planner of Cactus Collective Weddings & Electric Sugar Elopements. There’s no rush to get into wedding planning when you first get engaged. In fact, we recommend taking some time for yourself before the planning process begins. Plan an engagement moon if you have the time!

Keep in mind that if you’re going to be having a short engagement or are stuck planning your wedding within a time frame you don’t have control over, you may not want to procrastinate on planning. Do what you and your partner want to do, and not what you *think* you should be doing.

2. Announce the Engagement

The second thing you should do after getting engaged is tell the world your news. Some couples like to throw their news out to the public as soon as possible, while others wait for the perfect opportunity. (You know, go all soft launch on everyone à la Zendaya or Dua Lipa.) “Tell your close friends and family. Allow them to celebrate this milestone with you. Enjoy your congrats from your inner circle and celebrate with those who matter most in your daily lives,” Taylor recommends.

If you want to post about your engagement on social media, make sure to tell these people in person before making your engagement Instagram: your parents and immediate family, then your extended family, and then friends. Those in your “vip” circle will appreciate getting to congratulate you in person before the rest of the world knows.

3. Take a Ring Selfie

Yep. We mean take an actual selfie with your engagement ring on. While your engagement glow is still present, take some ring selfies to post on social media (or save for your private memories). Now’s the time to show off your ring!

4. Get Your Ring Sized & Insured

Want to know what to do after getting engaged? Get your ring sized and insured. While this may not be the most glamorous thing to do after popping the question, it is something you should do right away. If your engagement ring doesn’t fit you quite how you’d like it to, make an appointment with your jeweler to get it resized. You don’t want it spinning around your finger or slipping off and getting lost!

In case your ring does get lost, you’ll want to look into getting your ring insured. Just like you’d protect your belongings with your homeowners or renter’s insurance, you can add on jewelry insurance to cover your engagement ring. Many insurance companies offer jewelry protection as an add-on to your current policy, but you can also seek out companies that specialize in jewelry insurance. Do your research and see what works best for you.

5. Decide on a Wedding Date

The next step in the process is to choose your wedding day. Again, the sooner you jump on the lookout for dates at your dream venues, the better. You’ll have a higher chance of securing your perfect date if you look into it right after getting engaged versus wait a few months. You can choose your wedding date to be special to you and your partner. Maybe it would be sweet to get married on the day you two first met or first said “I love you” to each other. Another thing you may want to take into consideration is if your wedding will be during peak season and if you’d rather have your wedding during a weekday or weekend. All of these things can affect your overall price. If you have a special time or season in mind, we recommend crossing this off your after-engagement to-do list as soon as possible.

6. Take Engagement Photos

Schedule an engagement photo shoot! Not only will this allow you and your partner to feel more comfortable in front of the camera on your wedding day, but you’ll have photos taken of this special time in your lives. “Take engagement photos!! Capture this magical moment before you say ‘I Do.’ Not only will it be a reminder of your love, but it’ll allow you to get to know your potential wedding photographer,” Taylor suggests. We recommend choosing a photographer whose photos you absolutely adore; you’re going to be looking at them for many years to come!

7. Create a Wedding Checklist

After deciding on a wedding date, make yourself a wedding checklist. There are tons of wedding planning checklists out there, but if you want something more personalized, you can make your own wedding checklist on The Knot. Our tool will help you identify what you should be doing each month of the planning process. Try not to overwhelm yourself with a set deadline for when everything should be completed. There’s plenty of time to get little details finished before the big day. Trust us.

Pro tip: Once you make your checklist, make sure to store it in a safe place. You don’t want to misplace it!

8. Prepare Your Wedding Filing System

Here’s a helpful wedding planning tip: One of the first things you should do once you get engaged is organize your wedding materials. Many wedding planners advise their couples to create a wedding email address to use for all planning and vendor communications. This will help keep all of your wedding-related conversations in one Inbox.

9. Set a Budget

After you set your wedding date, one of the next things you should do is sit your partner down to decide on a budget. It’s important to come up with a set budget that you and your partner are comfortable spending on your wedding day. You’ll want to figure out how you plan to pay for the wedding as well. Will you and your fiancé pay for everything yourselves? If so, how? Are you planning on receiving financial assistance from parents? Have a serious conversation with your partner about the realistic amount you can spend.

10. Create a Guest List

When it comes to setting a budget, your guest list size will go hand in hand. Knowing how many people you plan to invite to your wedding will help you determine your venue and price range. Think about how many people you want at your wedding and create a list of those you’d like to invite. Some couples will start with a number that is most comfortable for their budget and work backwards. Begin by making a list of everyone you’d like to celebrate with on your big day.

11. Decide on Your Wedding Party

Having a wedding party is not mandatory. If you’d prefer a low-key wedding without delegating responsibilities to others, that’s totally up to you. Of course, we recommend having someone to share this special day with (you know us planners, we live for the wedding party member announcements). If you do decide you want a wedding party, you’ll want to designate who you’d like in your inner circle. How many bridesmaids and groomsmen do you want? Who do you think would best suit each role? Will you have an honor attendant? Figure these things out before popping the question to your wedding party.

12. Create a Wedding Vision Board

Still not sure what to do after you get engaged? Start a vision board! One of our favorite parts of planning is looking at wedding photos for inspiration. Whether you browse through Instagram, TikTok, or our favorite wedding planning resource, Pinterest, start collecting ideas that fit your wedding theme. Creating a vision board will allow you to really narrow down your wedding style. Not only will this be fun, but it will be extremely helpful for your vendors when you’re ready to share your wedding vision.

13. Venue Shopping

Once you have your date and theme locked in, you can begin your search for venues. Choose your dream wedding venue. Think about whether you want indoor or outdoor reception, if you want a large venue or more intimate and so on. Visit a few places you’re interested in; no need to commit until you’ve seen different options. You should speak with the vendors about your vision and see if your ideas can come to life at their venue. You don’t want to say “yes” to the first venue you see.

Keep in mind that your venue will also determine your wedding date. Many popular venues book months, if not a year, in advance. Just because you want to get married on December 9th doesn’t mean your dream venue will be available on your special day.

14. Create a Wedding Website

If you’re thinking, “Do I HAVE to make a wedding website?” Yes. Yes, you do. Not only will a wedding website keep all your wedding information in one place, but it will also help your guests with logistics. You can sync your registry to your site, track RSVPs, and answer commonly asked questions. There’s nothing worse than getting redundant questions from guests, a wedding website can eliminate those unwanted emails and texts.

15. Hire a Wedding Planner

Speaking of wedding planners…hi! When you know you want a planner on your wedding day, you should apply to work with one as soon as possible. Similar to venues, wedding planners get booked up quickly. If you don’t have a wedding planner secured after your engagement, you risk losing out on your dream planner!

16. Choose Your Registry

In addition to a wedding website, register for gift registries! Whether it be Macy’s, Target, Crate and Barrel, or all of the above…register, register, register! You want to have plenty of gift options for your guests.

17. Do Your Research

Now that you have your budget, guest count, and vision ready, you can start shopping around for vendors! Not sure where to start? Ask around! Talk to your recently wed friends and family to see who they used for their big days. You can also browse through vendor photos on social media to see if you happen to come across someone’s portfolio that catches your eye. Another great resource is The Knot Vendor Marketplace. We have thousands of hand-picked vendors for you to review before deciding on who to hire.

Reach out to vendors you and your partner are interested in working with and set up consultations to see if they’d be a good match for your wedding.

18. Have An Engagement Party

Are you still feeling overwhelmed on what to do after you get engaged. Throw an engagement party! We know we say this about everything wedding related, but you only get engaged once. Celebrate that!

19. Enjoy Yourself

Okay last one. We promise. Take your time and enjoy the process. While wedding planning can be stressful at times, remember you’re doing this with the person you love. Make sure to take your time and enjoy every moment! Congratulations on your engagement!

What Are Some Fun Themes or Ideas for an Engagement Party?

Having an engagement party is always a fun way to celebrate with friends and family before walking down the aisle. While engagement parties used to be more about the soon-to-be in-laws meeting give couples today are also taking the opportunity to really celebrate the couple. Engagement parties can be anything from a nice dinner at a restaurant, a simple backyard BBQ, or even a bash at a reception venue.

Deciding what type of party, you want will depend on how much money you have budgeted, how soon your engagement is before your expected wedding date, and if the couple want something low-key or go all-out. Weddings are usually pretty formal so having an engagement party is the perfect opportunity to let loose and throw a themed party!

Do I Want a Themed Engagement Party?

When people think of a themed party, they often associate it with something goofy or kid-like, but themed parties can be whatever you want them to be! When thinking about a themed engagement party you can make it as formal or as casual as you want. Here are some of our favorite themed engagement party ideas:

Wine Tasting Engagement Party

Ask guests to bring their favorite bottle of wine to share at the party or provide all of the wine and let guests take home a bottle of wine that they enjoy. Be sure to have all wine glasses on hand and prepare lots of yummy foods that will taste great with wine. Some great food ideas are fresh cut cheese selections (including fresh, aged, soft, and hard cheeses), a variety of bread and crackers, olive trays, and fruit trays.

Backyard Luau Engagement Party

Elevate your typical backyard luau by using a tropical themed color palette and decorate with stylish and elegant pineapple and palm tree decorations. Serve tropical cocktails such as margaritas, Mai tais, sangria, and mojitos. For food, keep it simple and BBQ style with grilled pineapple and shrimp kabobs, pulled pork and rice, or any other good your heart desires.

Chocolate and Champagne Engagement Party

It doesn’t get more engagement party than popping open some bottles of champagne and enjoy some chocolate. For this party you can set up a table full of gourmet chocolates, truffles, flourless chocolate cakes, a chocolate fondue station, or whatever else your heart desires. Not a big chocolate fan? Try setting up a dessert spread with a variety of delicious desserts.

Cooking Class Engagement Party

This themed party is great for smaller crowds and foodies. Many local cooking schools and restaurants offer cooking classes for small groups. You can even hire a chef to come to your home and teach your guests how to make something delicious (providing you have a kitchen big enough to host everyone.) Try to think of something that goes well with you and your partners’ personalities. For example, do dessert party and make several different sweets, or if you love Mexican food, you can have everyone make tacos and fajitas. Send guests home with recipe cards with the meal they created together.

Beach Clambake, Fish Fry, or Crawdad Boil Engagement Party

If you live near the ocean and love spending time at the beach, have your engagement party overlooking the water. Host a clambake or fish fry and serve grilled shrimp, lobster, and scallops. As far as side dishes go, you can’t go wrong with classic clambake foods such as corn on the cob, baked potatoes, and watermelon. Keep drinks simple with bottles of local beer and vodka or rum-packed seltzers. Set up tables and chairs on the beach and when the sun starts to go down roll out some beach towels and pillows for your guest to sit on. If permitted, start a bonfire and roast some marshmallows for s’mores.

Brunch Engagement Party

This themed party is perfect for couples who live to brunch. Serve all your favorite breakfast foods such as waffles, French-toast, quiche, omelets, fruit parfaits, yogurt, and fresh fruit. You can pair with lunch favorites or keep it breakfast themed. As for drinks, you can serve coffee, orange juice, mimosas, and Bellinis.

Budget Tips

When planning your budget for a themed engagement party it can be easy to go overboard and spend too much money. Instead focus on purchasing or renting small pieces of decorations that will bring out your theme and spending most of your money on food. Ask guests to dress according to the theme of your party and work at the location you’re in. For example, if you are having your party on the beach grab some tiki torches. They not only look great but provide light as your guest will be walking around.

What Are the Top Mistakes to Not Make When Buying an Engagement Ring?

What are the Top Mistakes to Not Make When Purchasing an Engagement Ring?

Congrats! You’re about to propose. Before you pop the question, you'll need the perfect engagement ring. With so many choices, mistakes are common. Here are 12 key mistakes to avoid making better decisions.

1) Purchasing a Ring Without Knowing Your Partner’s Preferences

The main mistake is not finding out your partner’s preferences. Always make sure you know what she likes or wants. Key takeaway: Avoid surprises by understanding her tastes.

Want to keep it a surprise? Pay attention to the jewelry styles she prefers or ask her best friend what she would like. Figuring out what type of engagement ring she likes will help ensure you pick one she loves. Another idea is to pop the question using a “placeholder ring,” then shop for the engagement ring together after she says “yes.” If you are going to propose somewhere where she will know it’s happening, you could always ask her what style she likes, down to the specific ring if you want!—let her decide.

2) Purchasing a Ring Without Setting a Budget

Never buy a ring that you can’t afford, and don't drown yourself in debt. When searching online for “How much should I spend on an engagement ring?” you will quickly realize that there is no correct answer. Most articles will say spend 3 months' salary on the ring. Well, that is very misleading. Just because you make x amount of money doesn’t mean you should spend 3 months of your salary on a ring.

Before even setting foot in a jewelry store, you should set a budget for yourself. Locking a set amount you're willing to spend on an engagement ring will keep you from going overboard and getting into debt. Plus, if you shop around for prices online, you will have a good idea what you can get for that price. Jewelry stores will also be able to serve you better– they can’t do that if you walk in and say, “I want the most expensive ring.”

If you can afford the giant ring, then go for it! If not, that’s okay too– just pick a price range that you are comfortable with and know that she will understand. You can always upgrade later when you make more money. Remember, you aren’t guaranteeing yourself a happy marriage by buying an expensive ring.

3) Purchasing a Ring Without Knowing Your Partner’s Ring Size

While nearby jewelers can easily resize most rings, why spend the extra money when you can get it right the first time? Getting the right ring size will impress her and save you the resizing fees. Having a loose or tight engagement ring can make your girlfriend feel like you didn’t put much thought into planning the proposal. Make sure you know her ring size before buying the ring.

Have to keep it a surprise? Wait until she's asleep or unaware, and measure it then! PRO TIP: Don’t pull out a ruler when she isn’t looking. Wrap something soft that can easily be measured around her finger, like a string or sock, and note the length, then measure the string. If she wears rings regularly, you can also sneak peeks at the sizes of her current rings.

4) Only Considering Diamond Rings

Yep. You read that right. Diamond rings are not the only game in town. When most people think about engagement rings, they automatically think of diamonds. But did you know that before diamonds were proudly displayed down the aisle, rubies and sapphires were the first gems to be placed on engagement rings?

How did diamonds become such an iconic engagement stone? Let’s just say De Beers has done a heck of a marketing job. History shows that the 15th century was the beginning of the diamond engagement ring. Archduke Maximilian of Austria bestowed upon Mary of Burgundy a ring with a diamond, the first of its kind. It wasn’t until the 1900s that diamonds began to take off through mining and marketing by companies like De Beers. Extreme marketing by these companies has driven diamonds to an all-time high.

Thankfully, today, there are so many other options when choosing your gemstone for an engagement ring. Every gemstone has different meanings behind it, and the majority of them are cheaper than diamonds. If you do a little research, you will find that more couples are switching to moissanite or laboratory-grown diamonds in place of natural diamonds. Not only are these gems better for ethical reasons, but they also help you save a buck. Many other stones are becoming more popular, such as morganite, emerald, alexandrite, and others. Ask your girlfriend what her favorite gemstone is and start researching from there.

5) Focusing On Carat Weight Only

How many times have you heard a guy say, “I want to get my girlfriend an x amount of carat engagement ring.” Yeah, your lady wants that too, but there is so much more that goes into picking out the perfect gemstone for your engagement ring.

Here’s a fun fact: CARAT DOES NOT MEAN SIZE. If you buy two gemstones of the same carat weight but different cuts, they can appear as two totally different sizes. The cut of the stone is very important when looking at engagement ring gems. Also, clarity and color play a big role in choosing your diamond. Cut, Clarity, Color, and Carat are known as the 4 Cs of gemstones. The 4Cs are used to determine a gemstone's quality.

White diamonds are a perfect example. You will want to look for a diamond in the near-colorless range (D, E, F) with very, very slightly included or better clarity (VVS+). The higher the carat, the better. As long as you pick a cut she will love, you are good to go. If she likes extra-shiny gems, you will want to look at brilliant cuts like round, oval, radiant, etc. If she likes to see more of the gem's interior than look at step cuts like emerald, asscher, rectangular cuts, etc. Learn more about the most popular engagement ring cuts here.

Tip: Just remember that while color is more important with colored stones, clarity is more important with colorless stones. Also, if you know your girl loves stones with inclusions, like moss agate, salt-and-pepper diamonds, etc., then make sure you pay equal attention to all 4Cs.

6) Not Paying Attention to the Durability of the Ring

How often do you think your significant other will wear her engagement ring? If you said once, then you’re wrong. She will wear that baby every day for the rest of her life. Yes, you should definitely pay attention to how the ring looks, but you should also put a huge emphasis on the durability of the ring.

How can you tell if the engagement ring you’re picking is durable? Do your research on the gemstone's hardness, metal, setting, shank, and the band's width and thickness. I recommend focusing on the gemstone's hardness, as well as the band's width and thickness.

As a general rule, a gemstone that has a hardness of 7.5 or higher is ideal for everyday wear. Not all metals are as durable as gold. 14K gold is more durable than 18 K gold, and 14K gold is more durable than silver. Setting styles also have a role in the durability of your ring. A bezel-set ring is more durable than a prong-set ring. As far as bandwidth and thickness, we recommend at least 1.6mm in width and 1.2mm in thickness. These are general rules, though, and you should modify based on the overall design you want and the wearer’s finger size.

7) Believing that Big Brands Provide the Best Quality!

Which would you rather buy your engagement ring from, a big brand or a local jeweler? The majority of people will say a big brand because of the extra security they feel they have. Our research has shown that more and more customers are disappointed with big brands. They feel as if the product is overpriced for what they actually receive, and the service is terrible. Did you know that most big brands’ prices are inflated because of brand markup?! Brand markup is when brands automatically mark their products up just because it’s their brand. Since big brands attract more customers, they don’t care about your ring as much as you want them to. This usually leads to downgraded quality and poor service.

Tip: Again, if you can’t distinguish between gems yourself, seek a jeweler who can provide you with professional certifications by a gemological institute!

8) Basing Your Decision on Popular Styles

“Most Popular Engagement Ring Styles.” Sounds like something you would Google, right? Things trend every year, and the trend changes each year. Unless she has told you exactly what she wants, don’t base your decision on what’s trendy.

9) Not Shopping for Wedding Bands at the Same Time

Let's be honest, most proposals are done by guys. In most countries, men do not wear engagement rings. Because of this, they tend to forget that women wear their engagement ring with a wedding band on the same finger.

Not all engagement rings are made to lie flat with a straight wedding band. Some engagement rings either have a gap in between the two, or you need to get your wedding band specially made so that it’s curved to fit under the engagement ring. If she loves traditional straight bands, keep this in mind when choosing your ring. You should also consider how the metals, gemstones, and design styles will complement each other.

10) Buying a Ring Unaware of How Comfortable It Will Be to Wear

Yes, people get caught up in the “dream ring” they want to give to their partner. Make sure you also consider how comfortable she will be wearing the ring you choose. Will she be able to do her everyday tasks? Does she work jobs that may have limitations on rings? Just because you think a ring looks good doesn’t mean she can wear it every day at work.

For example, if she is a doctor and always wears gloves, you may want to rethink getting a high-set ring. Although high settings enhance the stone's brilliance, they aren’t ideal for people with jobs that require frequent glove use. Many don’t realize how loose prong settings can be. Prongs catch on kids, furniture, clothes, etc. (if the jewelry isn’t made with quality craftsmanship.) Consider what she will be doing daily at work and whether those activities can be done while wearing her dream ring.

11) Not Knowing the Jeweler’s Return and Exchange Policies BEFORE you buy

Make sure you know the jeweler's return/exchange and other after-sale policies PRIOR to purchasing your ring. You never know, you may receive the ring and not like it for some reason. Ideally, a jeweler will offer a return and exchange policy that allows you to exchange the ring if needed. Also, having the information before you buy will prevent you from dealing with a horrible shopping experience.

Tip: Try to avoid jewelry stores that have “final sale” on most of their products.

12) Researching TOO much

Yep, you read that correctly. There is such a thing as over-researching. Once you start looking into all the things that go into buying an engagement ring, you will become overwhelmed, which can make you ultra-picky. That’s why you want to know what you want and ONLY research what you need to know. Don’t create more anxiety for yourself by over-researching.

Conclusion

We hope that after reading our top mistakes when buying an engagement ring, you now know what mistakes you don’t want to make when buying that “forever” ring. Good luck and congratulations again on your engagement!

Is Jewelry a Wise Choice for a Great Valentine's Day Gift?

Buying jewelry for your girlfriend, wife, partner or loved one on Valentine’s Day is always a hit or miss. While jewelry can seem like a great gift because of its romantic, expensive appeal, sometimes buying jewelry for someone special can actually send the wrong message.

To clarify when jewelry is the right choice and help you select a piece that won’t send mixed signals this Valentine’s Day, we’ve outlined key guidance below.

Why Valentine’s Jewelry Makes Such a Great Gift

Compared to other gifts such as flowers or chocolate, jewelry is timeless. Sure, she may love those other Valentine’s Day gifts, but jewelry is something she can use and wear long after February 14th.

Here are some other reasons why jewelry makes such a great Valentine’s gift:

·         Has emotional significance that will grow

·         A piece of jewelry, such as a ring or necklace, can be attached to a memory that will last.

·         Functional. Forget-about=valentine’s-day=literally everyday wearable you give her.

·         Even subtle jewelry will remind her of you each time she wears it.

·         Sentimental, but not cheesy

You don’t have to spend a lot on jewelry to be meaningful.

When Valentine’s Jewelry Can Feel “Desperation”

Be aware that jewelry may seem over-the-top or send the wrong message if you’re not careful.

·         You buy her a ring that resembles an engagement ring.

·         You guys are newly together or haven’t defined your relationship yet.

·         The jewelry you’re thinking about buying is too formal, flashy, or “ceremony-like”.

Jewelry Gift Ideas That Won’t Make Her Question Your Intentions

If you want to give her a gift that will make her feel loved this Valentine’s Day, instead of rushing into something, check out these great jewelry gifts that are perfect for Valentine’s Day.

Still, there are a few scenarios where jewelry may not be the ideal Valentine’s Day gift.

If you’re unsure whether jewelry is the right Valentine’s gift for your significant other, keep these tips in mind to make your decision easier:

Of course! Jewelry is a fantastic Valentine’s gift as long as you’re not using it to propose (unless you’re ready to propose) or buy her something you know she’d wear at an engagement party.

The best Valentine’s jewelry is sentimental, not costly. Opt for pieces she’ll wear daily. Avoid anything overly sentimental that pressures the relationship.

Want jewelry that's romantic, symbolic, and won't make her feel like you're rushing her? Browse our jewelry for Valentine's Day or come to the Luna Felix Goldsmith showroom at 116 W San Francisco St # 208, Santa Fe, NM 87501

Can You Clean Gemstone Jewelry in an Ultrasonic Jewelry Cleaner?

You've probably watched countless videos of people cleaning their jewelry with ultrasonic cleaners—it looks easy and tempting to try. But don't be fooled: not all gemstone jewelry is safe for ultrasonic cleaning. The specific gemstone, metal type, and jewelry setting can make ultrasonic cleaning risky and may damage your pieces.

In this article, we will examine whether ultrasonic cleaners are safe for your gemstone jewelry by analyzing key factors, including gemstone hardness, cleavage, structure, and setting style.

How does Ultrasonic Cleaning work?

For those of you who don’t know, let’s take a moment to explain how these magical machines work. Ultrasonic cleaners work by generating high-frequency sound waves in water. These waves create microscopic bubbles that continuously expand and collapse, a phenomenon known as “cavitation”. The force of this operation effectively removes dirt, oil, and debris from your jewelry at the surface and deep into the little crevices your eyes can’t see.

Factors Determining If You Can Clean Gemstone Jewelry in an Ultrasonic Cleaner

Hardness

Hardness is defined as a gemstone’s resistance to scratches and abrasion. In gemology, we determine hardness using the Mohs scale, with 10 being the highest possible rating. Here’s a general guide for gemstone hardness:

Hardness

·         High (>7)

·         Medium (5-7)

·         Low (<5)

The higher the hardness rating, the greater the gemstone's durability. So, when thinking about which gems you can clean in your ultrasonic cleaner, many people assume that a higher hardness rating means it's safe to clean. This is untrue. While hardness determines how easily your gemstone scratches on the surface, it does not necessarily indicate how resistant it is to breakage.

When you clean your jewelry in an ultrasonic cleaner, it will not only create friction on the surface of your gemstone but also cause it to wear down. The ultrasound will also send vibrations through the stone's body. That is why, when discussing whether you can put a gemstone in an ultrasonic cleaner, we also have to talk about toughness.

Toughness is a gemstone's resistance to breakage or fractures. Factors that affect toughness are cleavage and structure. Let’s talk about those two below.

Gemstone Cleavage

Gemstone cleavage refers to the tendency of a mineral crystal to split along defined crystallographic directions when subjected to an external force. Cleavage planes are directions in a crystal where atomic bonds are weaker, causing the mineral to break smoothly along those directions. The newly exposed surface will be smooth and flat because the atomic bonds pulling those ions together are weaker in that direction of the crystal structure.

You can think of cleavage as the identification of the weak layers within a gemstone. All gemstones have some level of cleavage that is generally rated as follows:

·         Perfect Cleavage: Gem can split easily along certain directions, with resulting surfaces being very smooth and flat.

·         Good Cleavage: Gem has a tendency to split along certain directions, with resulting surfaces being relatively smooth.

·         Fair Cleavage: Gem can split when pressure is applied, but is unlikely to do so. Any resulting surfaces will be very uneven.

·         Imperfect Cleavage: Gem does not like to split along certain directions, but when pressured strongly enough, it will show signs of splitting.

·         No Cleavage: Gem will break unevenly. This is known as a fracture.

Since ultrasonic cleaners can produce such a large force in such a small area, they have the potential to make existing cracks larger, create new fractures inside the gemstone, or completely shatter the stone. For these reasons, we do not recommend cleaning gems with perfect or good cleavage in an ultrasonic cleaner. Of course, you should also consider this alongside other factors, such as hardness, but it is a good place to start.

Gemstone Structure

Structure refers to how the internal structure of a gemstone’s crystals is formed. For example, is it porous? Does it have layers? Structure can tell you a lot about a gemstone's integrity and whether it has cracks, inclusions, or other internal flaws.

A porous structure will absorb water while in the ultrasonic cleaner. This can weaken the stone due to its internal voids and cause microcracks on the surface as trapped water evaporates.

Layered stones are prone to peeling or fracturing when vibrated by high-frequency sound waves.

Cracked stones or stones with fragile inclusions can suffer from increased fracturing or localized damage.

Even if a gemstone has high hardness and no cleavage, a loose or porous structure with cracks or inclusions remains unsafe for ultrasonic cleaning. The gem's physical condition, not just its hardness, dictates its vulnerability to ultrasonic damage.

Insight: Keep in mind that such a structure is what dictates hardness and cleavage. The gemstone's structure ultimately determines its physical properties.

Gemstone Treatments

Although the majority of gemstones don’t undergo any changes from when they are mined to when you buy them, some gemstones are treated to improve their appearance. Treatments can include irradiation, heat, or even oils. One common treatment is with emeralds. Emeralds are often treated with oil to fill in the many cracks that are characteristic of emeralds. Oiling helps make the emerald appear softer and more refined. Gemstones can even be treated with heat or irradiation to boost their color.

As a general rule, we do not recommend putting treated gemstones in an ultrasonic cleaner, as it can damage the stone or undo the treatment. When you buy gemstone jewelry, you can always request that the jeweler give you a gemstone report/gemstone certificate. Most gemstone certificates list whether the gemstone has been treated.

Setting Style and Condition

The gemstone's setting style is also very important when determining whether you can clean your jewelry in an ultrasonic cleaner. Settings that provide greater protection for the gemstone, such as a bezel or channel, will absorb more vibration and minimize damage to the precious stone. Settings with less protection, such as prongs, can leave your gemstone more susceptible to impact.

You should also consider whether your jewelry is in good condition. If your jewelry is already loose or damaged, you should not put it in an ultrasonic jewelry cleaner, as the vibrations can cause the stone to dislodge.

Metal Type

Sterling silver, gold (K gold), and platinum jewelry are safe to clean in an ultrasonic cleaner.

Exception: Do not clean gold-plated jewelry in an ultrasonic cleaner. The layer of gold on gold-plated jewelry is incredibly thin (less than 0.5 microns). Putting it in an ultrasonic cleaner can cause it to peel, bubble, or discolor. This also goes for white gold. Most white gold jewelry sold is rhodium-plated. Unless your white gold jewelry is not plated, do not put it in an ultrasonic cleaner.

Guide to Cleaning Opals in the Right Way

Have you ever noticed the rainbow sparkle opals display? Opal afficianado’s call that phenomenon “play of color”. Opals have this trait because each opal is unique in composition. The downside to this rainbow shimmer is that opals are softer and need more attentive care than your average gemstone. Typical jewelry cleansing techniques may damage opals beyond repair. If you want your opal rings and other opal jewelry to stay dazzling for years to come, you need to learn about opals. There’s a lot to know about properly caring for, protecting, and storing your opals. Follow this handy guide to learn everything you need to know about keeping your opals shiny.

Still wondering why opals need more attentive care than diamonds or sapphires? Here’s the skinny on what makes opals so special and fragile.

Opal Physical & Chemical Properties

Opal has many wonderful features:

·         Composition: Opal is a form of hydrated silica, which is basically a jelly turned solid. Translation: it contains water. Typically, 6-10% water, but can range up to 20% water or even as low as 3-21% water, depending on the type of opal and origin. These water molecules allow opal to have its play-of-color. However, because water molecules are present inside the gemstone, opal is sensitive to its environment.

·         Hardness: Opals have a hardness of only 5.5-6.5 on the Mohs hardness scale. Diamonds rank a 10, sapphire ranks a 9, and quartz ranks an 8 on the scale. Basically, this means opals can be easily scratched or worn down.

·         Structure: Precious opal has a microscopic structure consisting of three-dimensional, disorganized (amorphous) spheres of hydrated silica separated by tiny voids. Amorphous means that it does not have the orderly crystalline structure that other minerals do. When hit, it is more likely to break.

Why Opals Require Special Care

Opals' natural properties make them sensitive to:

·         Scratching: Opals, being softer than most stones, can easily be scratched. Really! Even dust can scratch your opal, yep, you read that right. Friction from wiping your opal with the wrong fabric can cause scratches.

·         Temperate: Due to the water content inside opals, they don’t handle temperature changes well. If you take your opal from extreme cold into a hot tub or sauna, the sudden increase in heat can cause the water inside the opal to expand. Too rapid an expansion can create small cracks on the surface or inside your opal. This is called “crazing”.

·         Dry Out: Opals love their water content and need it to remain intact and to display their play-of-color vividly. If you live in an extremely dry area or subject your opal to too much heat, it can dry out. When opals dry out, they can become crazed and change color or fade.

·         Damage: Opal has a toughness rating of “poor to fair.” Meaning it has a high likelihood of chipping or cracking when struck compared to other gemstones. Because opal jewelry (especially engagement rings) is worn daily, it is susceptible to damage from everyday wear and from being struck by objects.

Opal Type = Different Care & Definitions

Not all opals are cared for the same way. The type of opal you own will determine what you should and should not do when caring for your opal.

Solid Opals (Hydrophane & Non-Hydrophane)

Definition: Opals that are cut and polished from a solid piece of naturally occurring opal without any backing. So, these opals are 100% opal. When it comes to caring for your solid opal, there are two different types of solid opals you should be aware of: hydrophane and non-hydrophane opals. *PRO Tip: all opals we use in Luna Felix Goldsmith custom fine jewelry are solid opals. However, we use both hydrophane and non-hydrophane opals; we take extra precautions to ensure your gemstone lasts a lifetime. If the piece is made with hydrophane opal, we will specifically mark the product as “Ethiopian Opal.”

Hydrophane Opal: Includes crystal opal and hydrophane opal. Ethiopia (specifically the Welo region) is the most common source for hydrophane opals. When hydro liquids come into contact with hydrophane opal, it can temporarily become clear or change color. Some color changes can even be permanent if the liquid had impurities. Proceed with extra care when washing or exposing your hydrophane opal to water.

Non-Hydrophane Opal: This category includes white opal, black opal, fire opal, pink opal, etc. You can usually find non-hydrophane opals in Australia, Brazil, and Mexico. Non-hydrophane opals are generally thought to be non-porous and stable. Meaning it will not absorb moisture or any liquids. The water inside these opals is locked in.

Care: Wash non-hydrophane opals in warm soapy water with a soft brush/cloth. Do not use ultrasound or steam cleaners. Put it into a pouch to avoid scratching. If you live in an extremely dry area, you can prevent crazing by sealing your opal with a cotton ball soaked in water.

Hydrophane Opals: Do not come in contact with water or any liquids. Clean with a dry, soft cloth. Store in a dry area, away from humidity and sudden temperature changes. Never wear while washing your hands, swimming, applying lotion, etc.

How to tell the difference: Drop a few drops of water onto your opal. If the water absorbs into the opal, it’s likely hydrophane. When in doubt, always treat your opal like it is hydrophane. Better safe than sorry!

Assembled Opals (Doublets and Triplets):

Doublets: Thin slice of natural/opathetic opal glued onto dark backing material (commonly black onyx, obsidian, or common opal). The purpose of the backing material is to enhance the appearance of the opal’s color.

Triplets: A triplet is the same as a doublet, but with a clear top layer, typically glass or quartz. This top layer protects the opal and helps show off its color.

Features: Assembled opal layers are bonded with water-soluble or partially water-soluble adhesives.

Care: Do NOT soak in water. Extended exposure to water can break down the adhesive, making the layers peel apart. This will cause your opal to look gray, blurry, or cloudy. You should even remove assembled opal jewelry before washing your hands, showering, swimming, or washing dishes.

Why Is Christmas Time the Best Time to Propose Marriage?

Without a doubt, Christmas is one of the most magical times of year.

The twinkling lights, the coziness of family, that “holiday air” and cheer – it all makes for the perfect setting for loving, joyful, intimate moments.

Is there a better time to pop the question than during the holiday season? Not only does the Holiday Season hold the highest rate of engagements, it is simply the best time of year for making magical memories.

The Christmas season is ripe for popping the question and we’re about to help you with creative ideas to make that moment stand out from the rest and advice to guarantee that your proposal is a magical experience.

A Magical Time of Year

Everything is made new at Christmas. Whether it is the twinkly lights, the smell of the pine, the music – something about it just feels special. Factor in the romance of winter, with its soft snowflakes and crackling fires, and you have a scene destined for an unforgettable proposal.

The Holidays are About Family, Love & New Beginnings

Christmas is about much more than giving presents and putting up lights and pretty decorations. It’s a time to be with those we love, to be more open hearted, to embrace and lean into old traditions and new ones. What better time to join in a life-changing commitment than now, to introduce new traditions and to carry on existing ones with the person you love the most?

A Sentimental Time of Tradition

Christmas is a sentimental holiday.

From opening presents to enjoying holiday meals to reminiscing about traditions, many aspects of the season invoke connection and nostalgia. Including some of the old traditions in your proposal can create a romantic moment out of it.

Imagine such activities as putting up the tree together, a romantic Christmas Eve candlelight dinner by twinkling Christmas lights, or baking cookies together. Proposing at this time would link your romantic narrative with the beautiful narrative tradition of family and your engagement would be a part of the bigger story of your life.

Family Gatherings & Celebrations

For most families Christmas is also a time of gathering. If you and your partner are both very close with your families, proposing at a family gathering or during the holidays can offer a little something more special.

How wonderful it would be to have all of your closest family and friends around you to see the moment of your proposal and happiness!

It won’t just be the two of you who will never forget the proposal; an experience will be created for all those involved.

Cozy & Whimsical Atmosphere

The winter months have a magical, cozy feeling; it is a time when everything “feels” magical.

Crackling fires, blankets, hot cocoa, twinkling lights… Christmas just lends itself to romance. Cozying up on the couch or taking a stroll among the stars, there’s no doubt that the closeness of the season can lend an intimate touch to your proposal as well.

Why Is New Years Eve a Great Day to Propose Marriage?

Proposing on New Year’s Eve creates a celebratory, hopeful and nostalgic vibe. The fireworks in the sky and twinkling decor can provide a fairy-tale setting you’ve always wanted as the new year dawns and becomes a metaphor for the new life you are beginning together.

A Celebration of New Beginnings

New Year’s Eve stands as a holiday common to all, worldwide, the moment when old meets new.

The past, because New Year’s Eve is cyclical, returning every year, and is a reflective time. Possibilities, including beginning a life together; the new, for each year promises something completely different.

New Year’s Eve represents new beginnings, resolutions, and new stories; this can be paralleled with the couple leaving their individual lives behind and attempting to forge a new future together.

Traditions, such as the practice of making resolutions, can be similar to the signing of marriage agreements or marriage licenses, where you make couple intentions to unite two people’s lives in a way that inspires a strong launching pad for a life together.

And just think of the added benefit that proposing on New Year’s means you have a beautiful and special reason to celebrate New Year’s every year—the engagement anniversary! It’s a romantic sentiment for moving on and moving forward together in kindness and grace.

A Naturally Romantic Setting

Indulgently cozy and intimate, a picturesque winter setting can create an ideal atmosphere for popping the question to your sweetheart. Nothing but the warm glow from a candlelight dinner, a cabin in the woods with snow- dusted trees or twinkling party lights in the wintery air can really set the stage for a proposal.

There is evidence that people are happier in natural settings. If you and your partner spend every free moment hiking, camping, or sailing, you’ll want your proposal and wedding to reflect that.

Creating memorable moments on your wedding day that are equal to the inspiration of a New Year’s proposal can be done with a mountain backdrop during your vows. Reach out today for more information on our stunning mountain wedding venue and all-inclusive weddings.

Loved Ones Already Gathered

Not everyone is a fan of public proposals, but if you and your partner enjoy having your special moments witnessed by friends and family, a New Year’s Eve proposal can be a fun way to ring in the New Year.

Here are a few ideas for incorporating friends and family into New Year’s Eve proposals. You may:

·         Throw yourself an engagement party.

·         Propose in a New Year’s Eve toast.

·         Have a friend or family member hold the “Will you marry me?” sign.

·         Get down on one knee and propose while everyone is waiting for midnight.

·         Have everyone present during your proposal light some sparklers afterwards.

·         Plan a scavenger hunt for New Year’s Eve where your beloved must find friends and family members who will hold clues on the way to your New Year’s surprise.

Why Is Christmas Time the Best Time to Propose Marriage?

Without a doubt, Christmas is one of the most magical times of the year. With the twinkling lights, the family warmth and holiday cheer in the air, it is a perfect time to steal a moment of love and joy.

There’s no better time to ask for your partner’s hand in marriage then during the holidays! Not only is the holiday season the most popular time of year to get engaged, it is also the perfect season for making unforgettable memories.

Since this is the prime season to pop the question, we are sharing some out of the box ideas to make your moment memorable, along with a few pointers that will help ensure your proposal is magical.

A Magical Time of Year

Everything in the world is affected by Christmas. One whiff of pine or jingle of music, or glimpse of twinkling lights recalls the magic of the season. Combine this with the undeniable romance of winter – soft falling snowflakes, fires crackling in the backgrounds – and you have a recipe for an unforgettable proposal.

The Holidays are About Family, Love & New Beginnings

But Christmas isn’t all about gifts or fancy decorations. It’s a time to embrace family, soften our hearts and embrace beloved traditions, both familiar and novel.

Now is the ideal time to take a life altering plunge and engage in new traditions, as well as honoring old ones, with the person you love the most.

A Sentimental Time of Tradition

Christmas is a time for sentiment. From the promise of presents to the food to traditions, there’s a sense of togetherness and nostalgia that the season brings. Utilizing some of these older traditions as part of your proposal can create a romantic moment.

Good examples would be decorating the tree together, a romantic Christmas Eve dinner by candlelight and Christmas lights, or baking cookies together.

By proposing during this period you are linking your romance to family traditions, and helping ensure that your engagement will become part of your life’s great story.

Family Gatherings & Celebrations

Christmas is, for many, a family reunion.

If you and your partner tend to be close with your families, proposing during a family get-together or holiday celebration can be especially meaningful. Envision how you would feel to have friends and family present to witness the proposal and soak in all the joy.

Your proposal will be one that is not only unforgettable to the two of you, but one that will be unforgettable for the two of you and everyone involved.

Cozy & Whimsical Atmosphere

There is a warm and whimsical feeling associated with winter that gives everything a bit of magic. Crackling fires, blankets, hot cocoa, twinkling lights—Christmas is by design romantic.

Sharing a moment on the couch, you’re enjoying time watching the stars or a enjoying short walk underneath them, the coziness of the season often lends itself to suggesting the season’s proposals are more personal.

What are Some Amazing Christmas Marriage Proposal Ideas?

If you are brainstorming ideas for a Christmas marriage proposal, it is only logical that you may be unsure which direction to turn or how to create a magical moment.

Here are a few good ideas that are just the right way to pop the big question this Christmas.

Under the Christmas Tree

And really, what could be more magical than proposing beneath the Christmas tree? Couples can’t resist the charming twinkly lights and ornaments and the gentle glowing beauty of the tree while asking for each other’s hands in marriage.

Some suggestions include the tradition of decorating the tree together or even at the instant the tree lights up for the first time. You might even use an ornament for the ring, which would add surprise to the proposal itself.

Hidden Gift Proposal

Consider utilizing the tradition of giving gifts and take advantage of this opportunity to propose by hiding the engagement ring inside a beautifully wrapped box or placing it within a pile of gifts.

Your partner will almost be waiting for the next gift but unboxing that box and looking at the ring will be a shocking twist. To take the holiday magic up a notch, you might also consider including a note or poem along with the ring describing why you wish to spend forever together.

A Snowy Adventure

Are you hoping for a winter wonderland proposal? If so, you may want to embrace the snowy backdrop. If you are ice skating, skiing, or going on a sleigh ride, the winter activities of the season can set the perfect scene for a proposal.

Imagine skating on a frozen lake, and you stop in the middle to propose to the love of your life – there’s nothing more adventurous and romantic than snowy fun time!

Christmas Eve or Christmas Morning Proposal

There is excitement and intimacy in the time before Christmas Day. Think about doing it on Christmas Eve when the magic of the season has yet to reach its full height and there is a coziness and intimacy to the world.

Similarly, Christmas morning is another great opportunity to pop the question, amid the excitement of the holiday and the joy of giving gifts.

You can choose to surprise your unsuspecting special someone on the calm of Christmas Eve or on the jolly morning energy of Christmas day – both times are equally perfect to make the moment memorable.

Tips for a Memorable Proposal

So that your Christmas proposal is as memorable as the holiday, consider the following:

Time & Setting

When you propose is key. Select a time when your partner is at ease and the mood is appropriate. If you wish to remain low-key, Christmas Eve can be a good time for a private proposal. Perhaps you’d like to spread the joy to other people and Christmas Day is as good as any, particularly with your family.

Of course, select a setting that enhances the magic of the season! Be it a proposal in front of the tree at home or in a romantic winter cabin, the backdrop should be a place that feels special.

Seize the Day

Be sure to take photos or video of the moment. Whether you enlist a photographer or rig a camera to capture the moment, you’ll want to take pictures of the smiling faces the moment will produce. These moments will be remembered when, not if, you get engaged, and your families can celebrate the joy of your engagement together.

Make it Personal

Your engagement should be representative of your partnership. Consider the personality of your partner and memories you have together. Make sure your proposal includes your own personal details, whether that be a more intimate moment versus a larger proposal in front of more people.

Post-Proposal Celebration

Post the big moment, have a party if it suits your vibe. Announce it at a holiday engagement party or at some low-key, intimate evening with just the two of you. Book a holiday photo session for some festive engagement photos and to enjoy the moment and to begin gearing up for an exciting year ahead as you plan your wedding!

The magical atmosphere, the family spirit and the love in the air make Christmas the perfect time to pop the question and there are so many romantic Christmas traditions you can weave into your proposal.

Whether you stage a personal proposal or a larger-than-life one, the holiday season lends itself to limitless ways you can make your proposal special and memorable.

Take Action Today!

Anyone planning to propose this year should head over to their local jeweler, like Luna Felix Goldsmith, as soon as possible to begin the search for an ideal ring.

Rings take 4-6 weeks for customizations, so if you chose something that requires resizing or that you’d like to customize, you’ll want to get this process started ASAP!

You have time if you intend to propose next Christmas, but it’s not a bad thing to get ahead of the game by determining your partner’s taste and looking at rings.

Visit our jewelry store located at116 W San Francisco St # 208 Santa Fe, NM 87501 (505) 989-7679 and we will assist you in designing the perfect ring for that special Christmas moment.